7 Secret Ways A Christian Lady Can Attract A Godly Man For Marriage
The marriage is honorable. Everyone wants a peaceful and loving relationship or marriage. Many women have many misconceptions about attracting the right man into their lives. Some think that it is dressing semi-naked or having sex easily that draws men to them. In this way, however, you will surely turn heads, but the question is: who are they? Are they men you would like to spend the rest of your life with?
Today, we want to see how a Christian lady can attract a godly man for marriage. As mentioned above, worldly people employ all kinds of unhealthy style, but Christians MUST stand out in the following ways:
Decency. There is a saying that the way you dress is the way you are treated. Christian ladies should be sure to dress and present themselves well. Let me tell you: men are visual and no man, including Christian men, he won’t recognize when he sees a lady he likes. And how do you get your attention as a Christian lady? Dressing decently namely: covering each part of her body appropriately with outfits that complement her figure; nice shoes; well groomed and well manicured/pedicured nails. She may not wear makeup or perfume, but if she must wear makeup, she must do so sparingly, without yelling, so as not to create an impression of who she is not.
Confidence. Confidence is very attractive. As a Christian lady, are you always confident in yourself? Do you know your worth and value? Do you love yourself for who you are and the way you look? Don’t forget: these things show up in your personality and demeanor. Men are easily attracted to confident women. Being a Christian is not an excuse, but you must be careful not to misconstrue confidence as pride or arrogance.
Friendly design. They say: to be a friend, you need to be a friend. Relationships are based on friendship. So, you have to learn to be friendly. You have to be accessible. Make it possible for people to get along with you easily; Always show love, care and kindness. Learn to wear smiles on your face. In this way you would be attracting God’s attention to you.
Respect for people. Respect for others is another key to attracting godly men. The truth is that beauty is not the ultimate in marriage, but character and personality are. Beauty can attract a man to you, but it is your character that determines whether he stays or not. People usually, especially in church, watch your character from afar. They want to see if you are that kind of Christian lady who respects and honors other people. If so, I wouldn’t be surprised to see a godly man making moves to get to know you.
He loves God. When you love God with all your heart, mind, and soul, HE will make HIS abode in you, and through the power of the Holy Spirit, HE will continually direct your affairs, including attracting a godly husband. This love of God will be manifested in everything you do and in the way you relate to people. God says: you are the light of the world. It will come true in your life. People will soon realize that it will not be difficult for her to respect and submit to her husband.
Kingdom Service. There is always an opportunity for you to serve in the church. By working genuinely in God’s vineyard, HE will work in his own vineyard. That is HIS promise! By serving in the choir; be a guardian of the church; or being a member of any other pious society in the church, you put yourself on display before the congregation to assess your character and personality. But never go into Kingdom Service because you want to attract a man. Let it be instead, because you love God and love to serve him. That way HE will meet you at the points of your needs.
Mistreatment of Men. As a Christian lady who wants to enter into a godly marriage, how does she handle men who approach her? It’s like customer service! Most clients, when they are mistreated, tell every potential client they come across how they were mistreated. And this impacts the company’s sales margin. It is the same when a lady rejects a man rudely. She will spread the ‘gospel’ among other faithful in the church. You will be portrayed as unapproachable and that will scare away other men who were watching you and waiting for the opportunity to let you know. If you’re going to turn down a guy you don’t really like, you have to do it politely with love. God bless you!
The love and fear of God should be the main guiding principles for Christian ladies seeking to attract godly men for marriage. If everything is done starting with God, it will surely end with God taking center stage in the relationship and eventual marriage.
