Remember the afflicted cats
When a household suffers the loss of a cat, members of the human family are not the only ones affected. The animal companions left behind are also suffering. Cats are characterized by being creatures of habit, so they do not react favorably to change. They like today to be like yesterday and tomorrow to be like today. If the animal that died was sick, it is likely that the companion cat felt this change. However, if the animal is hit by a car or simply does not return home, this scenario can be more traumatic for those left behind. In any case, they will need time to adjust to the loss.
What kind of behavior can you expect from your cat? You can see signs of depression, sleep more, hide, lose your appetite, meow loudly, as well as search for the lost mate and be on call for hours. Some cats even run away. One of my cats spent three days in a guest room as a sentinel for the last place he had seen his beloved companion. He only left for a few minutes at a time to see if his mate was hiding somewhere. She also ate little during this time even though her provisions were transferred to her.
What can you do for your companion cat in the days immediately following the loss? Since cats are very sensitive to environmental changes, your goal should be to maintain consistency and safety.
- If there is a body for the cat to inspect, some keepers believe this helps the cat better understand.
- If you have a memorial service or burial, include your cat. Let them see what you do and hear what is said. Cats can understand much more than we think they do.
- Talk gently to your cat and explain what has happened. Make sure your cat always pays attention to it.
- Hold and pet your cat as long as she wants attention. He will feel safer and calmer.
- Carry on with regular playtime or special rituals with your cat. The cat is familiar with these activities.
- Avoid changing household routines, such as mealtimes. Maintaining a routine sends a consistent message to the cat.
- Avoid changing cat food brands or rearranging furniture. This is too much change for the cat to add to what just happened.
- Avoid adopting a new pet right away, as the cat may think he is being replaced and may run away if he gets the chance.
- Avoid approaching the cat if possible to prevent her from feeling neglected. If you must travel soon after a pet loss, consider having a pet sitter or neighbor watch the cat. This change in routine is minimized as the cat remains in a familiar home environment.
- Watch for prolonged complaint reactions that can lead to medical problems.
Bottom line: Give your cat some loving attention!
How has your cat grieved the loss of a companion?
