Masturbation clubs: tips for beginners
Most of the time, masturbation is an activity that a man performs alone. Sure, guys may occasionally (especially in their teens) find themselves in a situation where they’re masturbating with a friend or they may be in a relationship where the foreplay includes shared masturbation. But most of the time, a man masturbates alone, as a way to enjoy and maintain the care of the penis while keeping his virility exercised.
But some men participate in masturbation clubs. These are group masturbation sessions with other people at a designated time and place. A novice looking to explore this option may find the tips in this article helpful.
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A masturbation club can be a rewarding way for a man to “open up” his masturbatory experience in a new way. However, as a newbie, there are a few things about jerk clubs that a man should know.
– Mix. Some masturbation clubs (typically called jack clubs) are for men only. Some (often called jack and jill clubs) are open to both genders. It’s a good idea to check ahead of time what kind of club you can attend. Some men are happy to masturbate in any type of group setting. Others may have strong feelings about whether they masturbate in front of men or women. Keep in mind, though, that even at Jack and Jill clubs, there tend to be more men involved than women.
The choice does not necessarily depend on sexual orientation. Many straight men prefer to masturbate only with other men in a club. They may be looking for a male bonding experience, or they may be uncomfortable openly masturbating in front of a woman.
– Stick to masturbation. Many men enter a masturbation club thinking that masturbation will simply be the first step towards a more intense sexual experience. In most clubs, this is not the case: oral sex, anal sex and intercourse are usually prohibited. Whether masturbation means masturbating only oneself or whether it can be expanded to include touching another person varies from club to club; It is recommended to find out the rule in a particular club before starting.
– Keep it impersonal. Many club participants prefer to remain anonymous. If a rookie sees someone she knows in the club, she can nod her head to welcome them or give a short “hello” and see if her acquaintance responds. If he doesn’t, don’t push him; the acquaintance may have a preference for privacy that must be respected.
– No pictures. It’s a “selfie era”, but refrain from taking photos in a club. Even if the image is meant to be a selfie, a guy may accidentally include another person in the image or make others worry that they are being filmed without his consent.
– Unclothed. Again, the rules vary from club to club, but most ask that their members be essentially nude. (There are often exceptions for footwear.)
– Keep clean. Clearly, a room full of men jerking off is going to generate a lot of ejaculation. Every man should be responsible for cleaning up after himself. Clubs tend to provide towels or tissues, but some men prefer to bring their own.
A newbie may initially feel a bit self-conscious in a masturbation club, which is all the more reason to use a top-tier penis health cream. (Health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven to be gentle and safe for the skin) to make the member look proud and healthy. Many common penile skin problems can be alleviated with a cream that includes moisturizing agents and a powerful antioxidant. A high-end emollient (such as shea butter) and a natural moisturizer (such as vitamin E) combine to combat dry, brittle penis skin. And an antioxidant like alpha lipoic acid is great at combating oxidative stress that makes penile skin look wrinkled and aged. With an attractive penis, a newbie has more power to walk into a masturbation club looking his best.
