How does a Hotwife pick up a lover?
The answer to the question, “How does a hotwife pick up a lover?“must be… very carefully! And I’m just being a bit of a joker.
So keeping in mind security and a few other things that we’ll get to in a bit…
How it does a hotwife pick up a lover?
Consider: You’ve put in the time and worked through all the steps to make your wife a hot wife, she’s on board and ready to go, and you’re super excited and can’t wait for her to come home all blushing. make love and… problem.
Who does she choose? And how does she choose it?
Why choose the wrong person can make all your careful efforts go to waste, especially I know from experience, both my own and that of other men in the hotwife lifestyle, that if you come up with a name like that… I ask (as I always say, hotwiving is fraught with danger and can be a real emotional minefield, no matter how determined, confident, and resilient we think we are).
Going to the other end of the spectrum, let’s say where she goes to a bar and picks up a stranger and then comes in with her own problems, especially since most women aren’t very into that. Most of the women I know tell me that they have to have at least I like it the man they are about to have sex with, even if they are not in a relationship with him.
Unfortunately, I don’t think there’s a right answer, because it all depends a lot on how you both feel about being a hot wife in the first place, because even if she’s okay with it, it doesn’t necessarily mean she’s okay with it. anxious or even 100% convinced. With that said, here are three ways my wife, Josselyn, and I or people we know have tried over the years with some success:
- Make a point of seducing a man you’ve both chosen.. This is a bit misleading, really. What it means is that they both keep their eyes open for potential candidates, and when one shows up…they both agree and she sets about seducing him. I think it’s always best to be as honest as possible in these situations because it’s not fair to play on other people’s emotions. This is now the only method we use to find her lovers.
- Search online. This can be a great way to go because both you and your potential lover know what you’re looking for. That said, you have to be very careful because talking online is cheap and some of the photos and profiles bear little or no resemblance to the guy you meet at the bar for an “interview” (that’s one of our rules, by the way – – ME forever get to know the guy first. If he’s not man enough to do that, he’s not man enough for her.) We did it this way and found a couple of lovers for her before, but he’s not our favorite, too many weirdos!
- Try a ‘swingers club’. While it sounds a bit vulgar, it’s actually a great way for beginners, especially if they’re not sure. The reason is that everyone is there for the same thing: if one or both chicken out at the last moment, then no one has an ego invested in it to hurt. It’s also a good way to test the water to see how Really react to another man kissing and making out with his wife. It’s a pretty safe way to “try out” the lifestyle. We haven’t done it this way ourselves, but we know couples who have and they tell us it’s been very successful and a non-threatening introduction to hotwiving. One thing I can tell you though, and it’s actually quite amusing, is that women tell me that they have a hard time getting a man to ‘play’ with at these events because… many of the men are there just to watch their wives have fun.
Like many so-called ‘festish’ lifestyles, hot wives are frowned upon by the mainstream, but this is mostly due to ignorance and fear (and often not a bit of jealousy, I think).
But, my wife, Josselyn, and I have been in the lifestyle for the last 7 years and aside from a few hiccups, it’s been a lot of fun. To me, there’s nothing as erotic as her coming home hot and flushed from having made love to another man…unless it’s maybe the few times she allows me to watch, kneeling with her hands tied behind her back. , as it has done. its fun
And now we’d like to share our knowledge and experience so you don’t have to make the mistakes we made, because we made them for you!
