Frequently Asked Questions About Permanent Orgasm Denial
Permanent orgasm denial is a hot topic, also in more than one sense of the word. First of all, it’s hot because in the male chastity community it’s often considered the “holy grail” and something a surprisingly large number of men aspire to.
And it’s hot because the idea of a man wanting and needing an orgasm and being prevented from doing it to your heart’s content is really exciting, and I think just about any woman could come to enjoy it if she tried.
Unfortunately, there is a lot of misinformation and confusion about what male chastity and permanent orgasm denial actually are, leading many men and women (particularly) to decide it’s not for them before they’ve even tried it or tried it. even before you’ve tried it. idea of a fair hearing.
So, in this FAQ, I answer some of the most common and pressing questions I get asked about male chastity and permanent orgasm denial:
- Is permanent orgasm denial safe? Strictly speaking, we cannot answer this question with a definitive “yes” because it implies perfect knowledge. By this I mean you could keep a million men in permanent orgasm denial for 30 years with no ill effects, only to find out after 31 years that it causes problems. What we can say, however, is that there is NO convincing evidence to suggest that permanent orgasm denial is dangerous to a man’s health. Uncomfortable, yes. Frustrating, definitely. Painful…sometimes? Dangerous goal? Not as far as we know.
- Will we still be able to make love? OUI well south. It is true that you have to be more careful and creative, and it may be that fully penetrative intercourse becomes too “risky”. But in that case there are many, many alternatives such as oral sex, multitudes of sex-toys and even the possibility of taking a lover to satisfy your needs (if your husband, boyfriend or lover really longs for permanent chastity and orgasm denial, it’s not fair that he expects you to do the same, and your insistence on bringing another man into your bed, even if you allow your husband to watch, is completely reasonable. This is called “cuckolding” and it’s a very common fantasy for men. ).
- Do I have to cheat on my man? Absolutely not. My husband, John, and I are aiming for his orgasm denial to be permanent in the near future, and there is no way on God’s green earth that he wants to cuckold her. He is and always will be the only man I want.
- Is permanent orgasm denial cruel? No. This is another common mistake. You have to understand, male chastity and orgasm denial are forever by consent. Also, in the vast majority of cases, your man wants this… that’s why he begged you. If you let him come and show mercy when he begs, when he’s down from the top I guarantee he’ll tell you he wishes you’d been stricter with him. If she’s begged you to permanently deny her orgasm in the cold light of day, then that’s what she really wants. Giving it to him is a gift.
- Does this mean my man is a “submissive man”? Not necessarily, no. Male chastity, orgasm denial, and male submission are often found together, but it is a mistake to assume that they are causally related. As an example: over the last 200 years, the number of pirates has decreased closely with the increase in global temperatures. This means that the two are correlated. But no one in their right mind would claim that low temperatures cause piracy. Many men simply enjoy the physical sensation of not cumming. Yeah, I find that weird too, but that’s okay: I’m not begging for orgasm denial.
- Is it all about the sex? Am I not a decent woman and have I done something wrong? Definitely not. Most men know that they are not up to their first performances, neither in bed nor out of it. Men who yearn for chastity intuitively know that if you severely restrict their orgasms for a long period of time (even permanently) they will be the caring, caring, hot man you fell in love with. All those sex hormones moving around in your bloodstream pretty much guarantee it.
- What if you cum when you’re not supposed to? Can I stop it? Well, there are two sides to this. If he wants to cheat, there is no way to stop him. No male chastity device is 100% safe, or ever will be; What’s more, a highly aroused man can probably have an orgasm while he’s locked up, no matter what he’s locked up in. But if he cheats, then he is the one who loses his own fantasy. And the flip side is “accidental orgasms” while playing. These things happen, and it doesn’t have to be a big deal unless you decide it is.
Ultimately, your success with male chastity and permanent orgasm denial will come down to two things: open and honest communication with each other, and a deep understanding of the facts by learning the nitty-gritty details.
