Chastity control in a love relationship
Believe it or not, chastity control is becoming an increasingly common lifestyle choice for many couples. I’ve recently seen it alluded to in the mainstream press and in some women’s magazines, as well as on some non-fetish related blogs and websites.
But what it is chastity control, and why would anyone in a modern society be interested in it? After all, it sounds like something out of the Middle Ages, doesn’t it?
Well… prepare to be surprised!
Chastity control: the paradox of more sex, not less
At first glance, putting your man under chastity control might seem a bit harsh, especially if, like me, you’ve experienced in the past how nasty things can be when you don’t give a man what he wants. This is one of the reasons why women find it difficult to understand the idea of male chastity.
Here are three surprising facts about male chastity control:
- Most men recognize, even if they’re loath to admit it, once they’ve orgasmed, their interest in us stops dead in their tracks. It’s easy to feel hurt, disappointed, and angry about this, but you can’t avoid this reaction any more than we women can avoid getting emotional and feeling fragile at the wrong time of the month. We are all slaves to our hormones (only men, being men, don’t want to admit it). A strict chastity control means that your man is more or less permanently halfway to orgasm. He will not only Really you will enjoy this…eventually…but it will also keep your interest and energy focused on yourboth in bed and out of it.
- Bring back a sense of fun to your love life. One thing is true for virtually all couples, and that is that their sex life tends to slack off and become very pedestrian and boring. It’s no one’s fault and totally depends on our biology… but that doesn’t make it any less frustrating and annoying. Strict chastity control makes sex fun again and forces you both to think more about each other (paradoxically, chastity control tends to mean that you enjoy plus sex, not less).
- It doesn’t necessarily require a big lifestyle change. As the Buddha once said, ‘Before Enlightenment, bring firewood, bring water; after Enlightenment, look for firewood, carry water. In other words, your life isn’t going to magically change and you won’t suddenly find yourself living on the set of a porn movie. The vast majority of your life will continue as it is now. The big difference will be that you will almost certainly be happy in general because your relationship it’s better overall.
There’s no question about it: chastity control is popular, fun, and becoming more mainstream and “acceptable”… which is all the more reason to make sure you get the real facts about it before you start incorporating it into your own. life.
So if you’re sick and tired of all the hype and nonsense you’ve been reading about male chastity control on the internet, and want a trusted source of information from a serious lifestyle couple who’s really living it, 24/ 7, after…
