5 Easy Ways to Stay Close in a Long Distance Relationship
Fortunately, the Internet has made it easier than ever to stay connected with your other half. Those miles away will seem closer if you use the following tools to communicate.
You’ll notice that some of the suggestions are pretty obvious, however I want you to rethink how you use them. Without further ado, here are some ways to get closer to your partner:
text message – Probably one of the easiest and most convenient ways to get in touch with your other half. Texting is common and there are many programs that you can use. If you are using a smartphone, you can try using What’s App. This app allows you to send text messages for free to any type of smartphone that has the same app installed. It comes with a download fee, but you’ll save that money many times over when you use regular text messages. You need internet data from a smartphone, but you barely consume your allowance.
Email – Another easy way to bridge the gap. Instead of regular emails, try sending a joke or include some pictures to liven things up. Email is better than chat or texting on the web because you can add so much to make your messages come to life. Why not try submitting a funny YouTube clip you found or even a website to plan your next vacation together?
video chat – You can use services like Skype to video chat for free. Just make sure you have a good webcam and microphone (if you’re using a laptop, they usually come installed). Video chat is a great way to catch up and see how your other half is doing. Other places like Google+ hangouts are also great because you can have a video chat while watching YouTube videos together!
Phone call – The traditional approach is a phone call. Give them a call to say hello and catch up. If you get a voicemail response, please leave a nice, sweet message.
traditional mail – Not many people use traditional mail anymore, that’s why I recommend it. Nothing is more personal than a traditional letter written by your partner. Craft it, draw some pictures, include some fun magazine clippings, and even put some of your fragrance on it. I’m sure their faces will light up when they receive it.
Just remember not to choke the other person. Give them some space but make them feel loved. There is no secret formula for how much and how often this should happen, but the two of you should talk about it.
Hopefully, the tips above helped give you some ideas on how to maintain a long-distance relationship.
