20 signs you found true love
The chemistry between a man and a woman can be good or bad chemistry. Many of us, through a lot of experience, know what it feels like to be in a relationship where the chemistry can be very strong, but it is destructive on an individual and couple level. Relationships based on this chemistry are often riddled with pain, guilt, fear, and a host of energy-sapping thoughts and feelings that can quickly turn into obsessions and depression.
What about good chemistry, what does it feel like and what does it look like, and how do you know the chemistry between the two of you is good? How do you know you’re with the right person?
1. They feel very comfortable with each other, as if they have known each other for longer than they really have.
2. They tend to agree with each other on most issues, and there is a feeling of warm familiarity around their personal belief systems, values, philosophies, and life goals.
3. They instinctively consider themselves equals and no one sacrifices more to be with the other.
4. You are very involved in each other’s daily affairs and the conversations between the two of you are generally mentally stimulating and lively.
5. They joke around with each other a lot, and their relationship is spontaneous and light-hearted, adding a light-hearted, friendly boost to their interactions.
6. They nurture each other with specialized care, mutual appreciation, acceptance, admiration, and joy; these keep the romance alive.
7. They like to spend a lot of time together in a home environment, which gives true meaning to the words feeling “at home” with others.
8. Open communication is alive and thriving, making it possible to be yourselves with each other.
9. There is a shared sense of mutual growth and support, and both give each other room to grow as independent, self-directed individuals.
10. You are more able than most couples to remain objective about your relationship and resolve issues that most couples find too difficult to deal with.
11. They are warm, gracious, compassionate, and flexible with others, and tend to expect the best from others.
12. They forgive each other easily when things go wrong and trusting each other keeps them closer.
13. They are quite protective (not possessive or controlling) of each other and of the privacy of their romantic lives. Others see them as a loving and positively united couple.
14. There is no fear of losing the other and mutual commitment and dedication to your relationship are important to your sense of security as a couple.
15. There is an earthy sexiness to your relationship and the sexual chemistry between you is so apparent it’s almost tangible.
16. Expressing yourself emotionally and sexually is natural and uninhibited. Feeling safe with each other puts you in the “mood” for intimacy and strengthens your affections for one another.
17. Together you are able to take great risks knowing that you will always have reach for each other and you can always count on each other.
18. There is a lot of positive energy generated between the two of you, and together you are excited about life itself.
19. The longer you are together, the stronger your relationship becomes.
20. The relationship changes your life so much that you know without a doubt in your heart that if it were to end, you would take something from it. You feel that you are somehow a different and better person.
Hopefully this information puts your heart and mind at rest. But if it makes you feel “unsettled,” then you really need to see who you’re with. You can be honest with yourself and face the pain that comes from realizing that you may not be with the right person for you, or you can ignore it now and later regret why, knowing what you know, you still went for a relationship that wasn’t right. good. for you. The beauty of all of this is that you have power over what you choose to do!
